Is impostor syndrome the result of skipping an important step?
Why the beginner phase matters and how to do it right
Disclaimer: I’ve only ever flirted with impostor syndrome. I’ve never been married to it, so perhaps I’m the worst person to give advice about it. Maybe it’s best if you take me with a grain of salt here.
You know you’re married to impostor syndrome when you’re convinced that you’re not good enough at your job despite being in it for years and getting solid performance reviews.
Just how clueless do you think your boss and peers are not to notice that they’ve been harboring a dodo this whole time? If they read you like a book, there’s no point in hiding. And if they are that clueless, there’s even less point in hiding. Do you really think they’re suddenly going to catch on after so many years? They’re too daft to judge your skills anyway. How could you possibly be an impostor in either of those settings? And yet, so many long impostor syndrome marriages are still seeking their divorces.
I’ve often wondered whether impostor syndrome and run-of-the-mill beginner’s trepidation are more closely related than we realize.
Personally, I experience impostor syndrome as the frisson of fear you feel when you’re stepping into a growth opportunity. A kind of “wow…
